Wisdom, Whimsey, and a Whistle.
Helping Moms Live JOY! No matter the challenges you face, or will face, as a mom, you have been divinely equipped to face them and grow through them. God is the Potter and you are the clay. He is molding and fashioning you and, through you, your children. That truth holds great beauty and divine security.

About Tracey

On a good day you’ll find me outdoors hiking and squeezing in some writing. I love my man and my children, [read more]

Two Knuckleheads, Wynonna Judd and an Epic Reunion

Jun
28

Yesterday I was sitting in an airport, had been for hours – thanks to two passengers who turned our plane around just before take off due to their inability to follow flight attendant instructions and turn off their cell phones.  They also dished out an unhealthy dose of obnoxious behavior.

Due to the epic fail actions and ill advised decisions of two knuckleheads about 70 other passengers lost their connecting flights and their next couple of hours were spent in a long line, followed by trains, buses and a night in a hotel bed that was not on their original travel schedule.  For each of us, the past 24 hours (or more) were altered, and not a part of our original plan.

We missed getting home, but I wondered what life important occasions others might have been late for, or missed altogether.

Interestingly as the 24 hours passed…God found a way to use even the altered plan to bless me.

One – I met Wynonna Judd…and I love her! She was very gracious and we chatted for a bit about mom life with teenagers.  She looked beautiful! Now I love, love Wynonna Judd!  :0)    I quick snapped a photo (sorry it’s so bad) before I went over to talk to her, but I didn’t want to ask for a photo w/her that seemed pushy…I just wanted to talk to her…mom to mom! If you click over to her website notice the name of her new single…Love It Out Loud…how weird is that?

Two – I got some extra time with hubby…which is always good! …

Three – I wrote the following as I sat waiting for my bags and observing life being lived around me…

I am sitting in an airport…crying.

While the world around me continues to turn and people scurry about.

The escalators before me carry travelers, many, many travelers.  Scores of faces coming down the escalator are weary and appear to be carrying heavy loads – and not just in their arms.

Just moments ago I watched a woman of 40 something bounce up and down and squeal in excitement, there on the down escalator was a younger version of her bouncing up and down.  They nearly bumped over a business man as they run to embrace…more jumping and squealing.  I imagined what great adventure the daughter might be returning from…or coming to.  Home from a mission trip? Planning a wedding?  No matter, I got to share in their joy, if only for a moment and it brought a smile to my face.

Now what I am looking at has caused me to cry…a single tear sliding down my right cheek.

A large black man in fatigues is holding a boy of two, who looks like a mini version of the handsome man who is clutching him. Father and son reunited…the boy is looking wide eyed at this daddy who he has no doubt been with only through photos… for weeks, months, years?  The beautiful ebony woman standing next to him, wearing bright pink in stark contrast to his fatigues, has her eyes locked on those of her man…tears streaming down her cheeks. She seems to almost buckle as she lays her head on his chest and his arms encircle her and their grinning son.  I can see whispers being shared, are they words of love or prayers of thanksgiving? Probably both.

The world is speeding past them, travelers scurrying, walking, talking – no one seems to notice the reunion of epic proportion I am witnessing. How are all these travelers numb to the sweetness of this moment?

I pray for this little family, I pray for other military families…and I even pray for the two knuckleheads who are sitting in a jail cell and hope that they learn from their mistake…and I thank God for the blessings I would have missed had my plan not been altered.

Simple Happiness…

Jun
8

To My men:  Hubby and son, thanks for planting the gladiola’s…you know they are my most favorite flower and they make the kitchen look lovely!

Media Fast

May
13

Motherhood can be messy.

Yep, a mom has got to do what a mom has got to do…and what this mom has got to do is step away from all things social media for a bit.

See you in a couple weeks friends!

Blessings!

Prom Dress Made Of Starburst Wrappers!!!

Apr
20

Through the years I have felt that I was an involved mom. A mom willing to go “above and beyond” to connect with and do things for my children. But I have just “met” a mom from Wisconsin that has gone further than most any mom would have the capacity to go by making her daughters prom dress…out of Starburst wrappers! I kid you not, watch the video…

Just watching that makes me tired, really … I mean really? Where did she find the time to do that?  And Starburst needs to pay her for all the publicity!

That is “sweet” dedication from a “star” mom, who leaves other moms “bursting” with envy … ok, that was bad…but I just had to go there!

Rise Up Dance

Apr
13

This made me smile!

I have officially decided I want to gather a large group of peeps and do something like this! One of these days…it will happen!

Enjoy!

Live Marriage Proposal

Mar
31

Get ready to say, “Awwwwww.” Cause this is too sweet! Go check out what happened on Regis and Kelly just moments ago!

Since I am VERY busy finishing up my book, that’s due to the editor tomorrow…that’s all for today folks!

Padded Bikini’s for 8 year olds?

Mar
28

Usually Monday is “Music Monday” around here and I post some music for your listening enjoyment because I love my music…and it makes me happy to share the tunes I enjoy with you!

However, today I felt I must send you over to MomLife Today and ask you to read the post we ran on Friday afternoon. And then I’m hoping you’ll go one step further and place a link to that post on your own site, or facebook page and spread the word. You will be joining an army of others who are doing the same thing!

You see, Friday morning I was made aware of a certain despicable clothier who was selling the “Ashley Triangle Push Up Bikini Top” for girls age 8 to 14.

WHAT? Someone needs to be pulled by the ear and marched into the principals office … better yet, marched into the office a few Daddy’s I know who’d like to re-educate them on appropriate attire for their daughters.

Ggggggrrrrrr.

Anyway, back to the MomLife Today post. So, we quick contacted one of our contributors – the wonderful Dannah Gresh of Secret Keeper Girl who has had a ministry to tween/teen girls and their mothers around the area of modesty. We forwarded her the offending information and after she yelled and counted to ten (through the computer…and I so heard her) her fingers got to typing and she whipped up a very educated post that you need to read!

Please go over to MomLife Today and read our article titled Is A Push Up Bikini Top Really Worth Fighting For? (Yes…so yes!) At the bottom of that article is a link to Dannah Gresh’s website where she provides a link where you can send a letter of complaint to the deplorable people making and promoting this inappropriate clothing.

Since placing the post on our site Friday afternoon that post has had nearly 10,000 reads and none other than Mark Driscoll of Mars Hill Church re-tweeted our post (thanks dude!) …no doubt that Daddy would like to be the hand grasping that pulled on ear!

Truly people…what has the world come to?!

Don’t shop at A & F … EVER!  If you have hand me downs…toss em, burn em, use them to clean up after your dog on your walks in the park. And tell others!

Random Photo Tuesday

Mar
16

We own two horses…part of owning horses is having to muck stalls. I expect to muck stalls…who knew I was going to have to muck my oven?!

Were you aware that sweet potatoes could defecate?

 

Pet or Family Member?

Mar
15

Allow me to begin by saying I am not writing this to rile anyone up…or to start a “don’t diss my dog war” I am writing it to educate and pose a valid question.

You see I have long been someone who enjoys animals, but think that some people (including some of my own family members) go too far by treating them like humans. My mom does not care for pets in the home and just doesn’t get it when others are so into their pets. My daughter is drawn to all animals and can connect with them in an amazing way and if there is an animal nearby she becomes it’s best friend. My daughters long range dream is to have a ranch where she rescues horses and provides therapy to troubled teens through them and she plans to have several dogs and cats as well!

How can three females in the same family feel so differently about animals?

I just read a very interesting article that may just answer that question. The article Emotional Power Broker in the Modern Family reports on a study by David Blouin of Indiana University who categorizes how most people feel about animals in three categories:

“…one group, which he labels “dominionists,” see pets as an appendage to the family, a useful helper ranking below humans that is beloved but, ultimately, replaceable. Many people from rural areas…qualified.”

“Another group of owners, labeled by Dr. Blouin as “humanists,” are the type who cherish their dog as a favored child or primary companion, to be pampered, allowed into bed, and mourned like a dying child at the end. These include the people who cook special meals for a pet, take it to exercise classes, to therapy — or leave it stock options in their will.”

“The third, called “protectionists,” strive to be the animal’s advocate. These owners have strong views about animal welfare, but their views on how a pet should be treated — whether it sleeps inside or outside, when it should be put down — vary depending on what they think is “best” for the animal. Its members include people who will “save” a dog tied to tree outside a store, usually delivering it home with a lecture about how to care for an animal.”

“These are ideologies, and so protectionists are very critical of humanists, who are very critical of dominionists, and so on,” Dr. Blouin said. “You can see where this can create problems if people in a family have different orientations. Every little decision about the pet is loaded.”

While I very much appreciate understanding where others are coming from when it comes to how they see their pets…I am compelled to wonder what the corresponding effect is on a major crisis that looms world wide.

When a loving family or individual has a pet and that pet becomes “a doted over member of the family” is that animal the appropriate recipient of the time, attention and love the family pours into the animal?

What of the 140 million orphans in the world? What of the thousands of children sitting waiting for foster care?

Could it be that animals do deserve good care and love, but not the care and love meant for a human? Is the reason there are so many children without families is that animals have become an “easy” substitute for the harder task of caring for a child who awaits a family?

I am not saying this to condemn those who love their animals, we love our animals…we have two horses, two cats and I previously wrote of the hole left in our home when our dog Blaze died. I am suggesting this because … well, because it is what it is.

I just can’t help but wonder?

What do you think? Please share your thoughts with me!

Things I Been Meaning To Do

Mar
11

suitcase...still not unpacked...from Feb 14th Love Like You Mean It Cruise!!!

mail repeatedly dumped in gift sack…wanna gift?

So…I have been back from the Homeschool Convention for days…I have only managed to write one post all week! Why is it that going out of town gets me SO FAR behind on my to do’s?

Because of my responsibilities over at MomLife Today and my guest post writing it seems my own blog suffers the most from neglect when I am pressed for time. You know I have often heard a painters abode is the ugliest one on the block…no time to paint his own home. I get it.

{Heavy sigh.}

I was feeling frustrated over the amount of “stuff” I have to do…and the minimal time I have to write…and suddenly I found myself over at I’m A Lazy Mom’s blog {yeah…so I wasn’t doing anything productive STILL} and I perused her photos and thought…hey, that works for me.

Rather than sweat the small stuff I am flat out confessing through photographic evidence my behindness this week!

OK…right, some of this stuff has been sitting around longer than a week…but who’s counting!

Confession is good for the soul…and actually I am giggling as I type!

Thanks I’m a Lazy Mom…I mean really – who cares, it’s not going anywhere!

folded laundry...waiting...waiting...waiting

CHRISTmas lights in the mud room looking for a home...don't judge me!